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I wonder why people do so many things in their life for a change?
I understand that everyday when we follow the same routine becomes boring and we plan to do something which could be adventures trip , planning holidays to hill stations or beach, shopping etc. This should happen in our life because it could work as a stress buster, get relief from frustration, get motivated which add excitement to make our life easier.
I usually advise people surrounding me all these things whenever they feel low sometimes.
But I guess It's easy to suggest or advise rather than follow.
Sometimes to overcome from the darker side we Indulge ourselves to change our thoughts for a good purpose. And that will be suspicious whether it's leading to good or bad.
We always say to our elders that we should change according to this new change world. Our elders always use to abaft their generations and observe and differentiate the new generations. So they try to sustain happiness in our life for our betterment. Okay! change should be done for the welfare and wellbeing. So I got realised that we changed according to the whole world who has never for ourselves.
Major impact on lifestyle:
Today we all are in rat race to accomplish achievements, status quo, luxurious lifestyle etc. At some point there is lack of humanity and emotions. In today's generation women doesn't groom herself for herself but to showoff other women they do. Mostly women focus to show off their high status quo and have forgotten to live her life for ourselves. And when they fails to do that then anxiety, agitation, frustration, jealousies take place in their life. Gradually we are unable to riddance ourselves from adopting the modern culture. These have become so bounteous that we are unable to adapt our own culture. Why I am saying because basically I am from bihar. Bihar is considered as a backward state. This is because we have literally immerse ourselves in western or modern culture. So, it becomes difficult to follow our own culture. I am born and brought up in gujarat. After getting married we moved in Patna. And i have realized that being from bihar i was unable to accept our own culture itself because of adopting the western or modern culture. The people of Gujarat, Maharashtra, Tamil Nadu, Kerala etc are so obsessive about their culture, rituals, and traditions. The people of bihar who is living in some other state has adopted every cultures and rituals of that particular state and difficult to follow their own culture.
For example:
The Orange colour sindoor is the speciality of Bihar's women. How many women have you seen in orange colour sindoor? The answer is No one. Orange colour sindoor is being used occasionally otherwise usually red colour sindoor is being used. This happen due to adoption of modern lifestyle .
According to my research India is embodied with 22 major languages written in 13 different scripts and with over 720 dialects. In bihar we have total 5 dialects such as Bhojpuri, Magahi, Maithili, Angika and Vajjika. Many people of bihar doesn't speak bhojpuri ( the dialect most associated with bihar) because different regions have different dialects.
So,
I have often been asked outside the state : Are you from Bihar? Do you speak Bihari or Are you Bihari? A question they are likely to find bizarre. For contrary to popular perceptions there is no language such as "Bihari". These are the reason for the abase from our own culture which shouldn't be. It's all because we have adopted the western or modern culture and also walking along with people opinions.
Let's become the Transparent book for our own culture
The day when you accept your culture, you accept the way you are is the day you feel proud for your culture, when you tell others the importance of your culture and feel proud to speak your language without hesitation. We should be the change for ourselves not for others. Cultivate the positive impact on people as well as to yourself. To accept or deny your culture and rituals is your own choice but not let people to allow for abation our culture. We are lucky to have our own culture. there are people in this world who are unaware about their culture and parent. Women should feel proud to apply orange colour sindoor because it's our traditions like how we have accepted other traditions by wearing chuda and kaliren in hands.
Live your life your way.
With Adoption of modern lifestyle by following our culture with integrity is the best way to go.
Thank you
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