Subscribe to let her speak by Email I wonder why people do so many things in their life for a change?  I understand that everyday when we follow the same routine becomes boring and we plan to do something which could be adventures trip , planning holidays to hill stations or beach, shopping etc. This should happen in our life because it could work as a stress buster, get relief from frustration, get motivated which add excitement to make our life easier.  I usually advise people surrounding me all these things whenever they feel low sometimes. But I guess It's easy to suggest or advise rather than follow. Sometimes to overcome from the darker side we Indulge ourselves to change our thoughts for a good purpose. And that will be suspicious whether it's leading to good or bad. We always say to our elders that we should change according to this new change world. Our elders always use to abaft their generations and observe and differentiate the new generations. So they try to susta...

Subscribe to Optimistic women by Email Whenever I sit alone I use to think that why people get stuck with the thoughts which cultivate negativity about others? Why people get influenced with such negative gossip which doesn’t make sense? Why people are interested in putting their foot down in others matter instead of doing their own work? And many more… These all are the question which was running inhabiting in my mind. Recycle yourself: Like the coins have two sides similarly we the human being has two sides of thoughts one is positive thoughts and negative thoughts. Negative thoughts are much vicinity as compared to positive thoughts in our life. I chose to create positivity in my mind by doing some productive work. One day I had realized that lots of disposable food containers, plastic bottles, cups etc lying in my house. So I thought instead of throwing it out let’s do the recycle. I started kitchen gardening by recycling the disposable container, cups, bottles etc.   Why soci...

👧 Subscribe to Optimistic women  In this democratic country the women life has been known for barriers that she has to face in day to day life. We always discuss about feminism, women empowerment, equality but at the time of execution we segregate all these things in realities from them . WOMEN EMPOWERMENT AND GENDER EQUALITY 1.                     First let’s define the word “women     empowerment”. What is this? And why there is   gender   equality?     As we are aware of this is the process of empowering women. Now, empowerment can be defined in many ways, however when we are discussing about women empowerment, empowerment means we are accepting or allowing the women for taking her own decision whether it is inside or outside into it. It is for the development of society and country. But everyday women have to fight for their rights. Empowerment means the wo...

The nationwide lockdown has forced most of the people to remain indoor because the corona pandemic has swept across the world. Entire globe community is grappling with ways to prevent this disease from spreading exponentially. We are very much aware that social distancing, mask, sanitizing or washing hands every 20 minutes are the steps to prevent this disease. Now in this pandemic, everyone has indulged themselves to make the most of the situation. As everything has been shut down due to COVID 19, this taught us to live self-reliant in our life. How? Let’s elaborate : First is housemaid to whom I was so dependent for our housework. Because I really don’t want to risk their lives in this pandemic I decided to do my household chores by myself. Initially, I was distress from this never-ending sweeping, washing utensils, mopping, cooking, etc… But being distressful is not a solution I guess. It is very important to keep emotional equilibrium to ourselves during this pandemic. So, later on...

  Life is full of ups and down, success and failure, joys and sorrows, hopes and disappointments. There are days when life goes on as usual without any remarkable things happening to us. There are some days when almost everything goes wrong. And there are a few days when life springs surprises on us. Right now we are facing the most remarkable thing i.e. COVID crisis in our day to day life from past 2 months. Government announced to lockdown our country to curb the most contagious corona virus to flatten the disease. So situations arise in our lives regularly and even suddenly, sometimes.   Due to ongoing pandemic, we can feel helplessness when faced with difficult situations is something that many people of the world experience. Life can be demanding at times when we are not prepared for that. So this makes it difficult for us to adjust to the sudden changes in our life. So, According to me the best way to face any crisis is to remain calm, cool, and solution oriented w...

We all live in this sophisticated world between sophisticated people. It becomes difficult for me to understand the meaning of simple life and luxurious life. And I am endeavoring  to understand both of these. I guess I come in middle of these and that’s y I have been called as middle class but this is ineffectual things for me.   And now to live with sophisticated views is the new discovery of mine. Yeah, because it's the only thing remain in life is your own “ views ” on which you believe. In today's generation, looking beautiful from the outer body has become the most prominent part in our life.  Yeah, that's important but not much. As there is saying that “looks doesn't matter" and I have a strong belief on this and the perception which I follow. Be the significant person in your life so that you could compelled yourself to make your bright future.     I am a software engineer as I cannot work for long period of time in any companies so I chose to...